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		<title>By: Sally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Dec 2010 10:30:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The end of the month is also a great time to negotiate prices as sales staff are looking to boost their monthly quotas.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The end of the month is also a great time to negotiate prices as sales staff are looking to boost their monthly quotas.<br />
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		<title>By: Claire from DC</title>
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		<dc:creator>Claire from DC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 05:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got 10% off a desk at Pottery Barn - just by asking the manager.  Most important thing is to ask when no one else is around.  Also, keep in mind that any &quot;damaged&quot; items are almost always negotiable (think of the as-is section an IKEA).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got 10% off a desk at Pottery Barn &#8211; just by asking the manager.  Most important thing is to ask when no one else is around.  Also, keep in mind that any &#8220;damaged&#8221; items are almost always negotiable (think of the as-is section an IKEA).</p>
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		<title>By: Meredith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meredith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 00:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If it&#039;s an online purchase, I order something small and inexpensive. They usually send you a coupon for a percentage off. Use that for the big purchase.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Meredith&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bust-clutter.com/storage/storing-your-electronics&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Storing Your Electronics&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If it&#8217;s an online purchase, I order something small and inexpensive. They usually send you a coupon for a percentage off. Use that for the big purchase.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Meredith&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://bust-clutter.com/storage/storing-your-electronics" rel="nofollow">Storing Your Electronics</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Favorite Finds Of The Week &#124; Serene Journey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Favorite Finds Of The Week &#124; Serene Journey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2009 12:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Lessons From a Pro: How to Get a Better Deal on Big Purchases - Small Notebook “Bargaining was something I always avoided. I didn’t want to offend anyone. The idea of haggling seemed as terrible as the word sounded. Paying the asking price was more comfortable than talking about money, so that is what I always did.” [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Lessons From a Pro: How to Get a Better Deal on Big Purchases &#8211; Small Notebook “Bargaining was something I always avoided. I didn’t want to offend anyone. The idea of haggling seemed as terrible as the word sounded. Paying the asking price was more comfortable than talking about money, so that is what I always did.” [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 00:48:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Walking away is always a good option.  When my fiancé was buying a car last year, thousands was shaved off the price by simply “waking away”.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Carla&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/greenandchic/~3/NXE6eJuR6Yc/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Eco Fashion: What is it?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Walking away is always a good option.  When my fiancé was buying a car last year, thousands was shaved off the price by simply “waking away”.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Carla&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/greenandchic/~3/NXE6eJuR6Yc/" rel="nofollow">Eco Fashion: What is it?</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 19:59:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We built a house last year and I stepped out of my comfort zone to negotiate a price on almost every big item purchase in our home.  I saved us thousands and thousands of dollars and still got most of the stuff I wanted in the build.  If nothing else, ask &quot;can you give me 10%&quot; on this?  The answer will likely be yes, especially in this economy.  Discounts like that make a big impact in the long run!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We built a house last year and I stepped out of my comfort zone to negotiate a price on almost every big item purchase in our home.  I saved us thousands and thousands of dollars and still got most of the stuff I wanted in the build.  If nothing else, ask &#8220;can you give me 10%&#8221; on this?  The answer will likely be yes, especially in this economy.  Discounts like that make a big impact in the long run!</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 18:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to be quite intimidated by haggling or bargaining, but over the years, I have gotten much more confident. I now actually prefer situations where I can have some say in the price, and look for opportunities to ask, rather than just accepting the stated price. 

I find that as long as I am reasonable and polite, I am rarely turned down, and if I am, I just say thank you and walk away graciously. No big deal. 

I love that I have learned that you can always ask for a discount, anywhere, even when you think the prices are set. Grocery stores, phone or internet services, even big retail stores if you would like to purchase something out of package or with a minor flaw. We have definitely saved a lot of money this way!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/keeperofthehome/wp/~3/545622359/living-with-pcos-answers-to-some-qa.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Living with PCOS: Some Q&amp;A&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to be quite intimidated by haggling or bargaining, but over the years, I have gotten much more confident. I now actually prefer situations where I can have some say in the price, and look for opportunities to ask, rather than just accepting the stated price. </p>
<p>I find that as long as I am reasonable and polite, I am rarely turned down, and if I am, I just say thank you and walk away graciously. No big deal. </p>
<p>I love that I have learned that you can always ask for a discount, anywhere, even when you think the prices are set. Grocery stores, phone or internet services, even big retail stores if you would like to purchase something out of package or with a minor flaw. We have definitely saved a lot of money this way!</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/keeperofthehome/wp/~3/545622359/living-with-pcos-answers-to-some-qa.html" rel="nofollow">Living with PCOS: Some Q&amp;A</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Mara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 16:33:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful post!  I have discovered that this works in some surprising places... one of my credit cards lowered my interest rate just because I asked.  (The funny thing is that I was kind of joking at the time: the rep on the phone asked, &quot;is there anything else we can do for you today?&quot;, I replied, &quot;Not unless you can lower my rate, hehe&quot;... and he switched me to a department that does that!) 

Ever since then, I&#039;ve realized that there are advantages out there that you can&#039;t get if you don&#039;t ask for them!  

Similarly, I&#039;ve gotten a lot better at speaking up about bad experiences with products or services.  I&#039;m pretty shy and I&#039;ve worked in customer service forever, so I have always had a hard time with &quot;being difficult&quot;.  But politely letting a manager or store rep know that something you bought didn&#039;t work, or that you&#039;ve been waiting forever for an appetizer, or whatever, will help recoup whatever you&#039;ve lost, AND let *them* know that there may be a problem.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mara&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://mara-verse.blogspot.com/2009/02/paper-hoarder.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Paper Hoarder&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful post!  I have discovered that this works in some surprising places&#8230; one of my credit cards lowered my interest rate just because I asked.  (The funny thing is that I was kind of joking at the time: the rep on the phone asked, &#8220;is there anything else we can do for you today?&#8221;, I replied, &#8220;Not unless you can lower my rate, hehe&#8221;&#8230; and he switched me to a department that does that!) </p>
<p>Ever since then, I&#8217;ve realized that there are advantages out there that you can&#8217;t get if you don&#8217;t ask for them!  </p>
<p>Similarly, I&#8217;ve gotten a lot better at speaking up about bad experiences with products or services.  I&#8217;m pretty shy and I&#8217;ve worked in customer service forever, so I have always had a hard time with &#8220;being difficult&#8221;.  But politely letting a manager or store rep know that something you bought didn&#8217;t work, or that you&#8217;ve been waiting forever for an appetizer, or whatever, will help recoup whatever you&#8217;ve lost, AND let *them* know that there may be a problem.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Mara&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://mara-verse.blogspot.com/2009/02/paper-hoarder.html" rel="nofollow">Paper Hoarder</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: momstheword</title>
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		<dc:creator>momstheword</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 23:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my goodness.....this is just such a hard thing for me.  I don&#039;t even like yard sales when they don&#039;t price it but say &quot;make me an offer.&quot;  I know I just need to get over it and get brave!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;momstheword&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://momstheword--livingforhim.blogspot.com/2009/02/simple-womans-daybook-february-23rd.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;THE SIMPLE WOMAN&#039;S DAYBOOK - FEBRUARY 23rd EDITION&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my goodness&#8230;..this is just such a hard thing for me.  I don&#8217;t even like yard sales when they don&#8217;t price it but say &#8220;make me an offer.&#8221;  I know I just need to get over it and get brave!</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>momstheword&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://momstheword--livingforhim.blogspot.com/2009/02/simple-womans-daybook-february-23rd.html" rel="nofollow">THE SIMPLE WOMAN&#8217;S DAYBOOK &#8211; FEBRUARY 23rd EDITION</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: SavvyChristine</title>
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		<dc:creator>SavvyChristine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 20:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not big on negotiating normally, but we&#039;re planning a wedding, and I&#039;ve definitely gotten better at asking for a lower price.  You have to!  I think the trick is to remember your budget and have a few lines up your sleeve.  

For example, I try to remember, &quot;How can we get this down to a more affordable price for us?&quot; or &quot;what can we do to lower the price?&quot;  I don&#039;t like asking yes or no questions since they can say no too easily.

One more thing: do your research to feel confident.  I got a lot better at negotiating when I read some personal finance books and blogs and learned some jargon.  In the same way, I did research on wedding vendors and learned what they all had in common and what the price points would normally get me.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;SavvyChristine&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://simplesavvy.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/weekend-warrior-combating-stress/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weekend Warrior: Combating To-do List Stress&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not big on negotiating normally, but we&#8217;re planning a wedding, and I&#8217;ve definitely gotten better at asking for a lower price.  You have to!  I think the trick is to remember your budget and have a few lines up your sleeve.  </p>
<p>For example, I try to remember, &#8220;How can we get this down to a more affordable price for us?&#8221; or &#8220;what can we do to lower the price?&#8221;  I don&#8217;t like asking yes or no questions since they can say no too easily.</p>
<p>One more thing: do your research to feel confident.  I got a lot better at negotiating when I read some personal finance books and blogs and learned some jargon.  In the same way, I did research on wedding vendors and learned what they all had in common and what the price points would normally get me.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>SavvyChristine&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://simplesavvy.wordpress.com/2009/02/23/weekend-warrior-combating-stress/" rel="nofollow">Weekend Warrior: Combating To-do List Stress</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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